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How to Stop Avoiding Your Emotions & Start Feeling Them

Avoiding your emotions may bring short-term relief, but it keeps you stuck in cycles of disconnection and prevents deeper healing. This post explores why we avoid emotions, what it means to actually feel your feelings, and how sitting with discomfort can lead to real emotional healing. Whether you tend to shut down, numb out, or distract yourself, you’ll learn tools to begin shifting your relationship with your emotions.

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Shaelyn McCabe Shaelyn McCabe

Embracing the Power of Adaptive Perfectionism

Perfectionism doesn’t have to be the enemy. Discover how to move from self-criticism to self-compassion by embracing the parts of perfectionism that help you grow. Learn the difference between control and true inner power, how to reconnect with your self-worth, and why healing isn’t about fixing yourself—but remembering that you’re already whole. For anyone feeling stuck in “never enough,” this perspective can offer a new way forward.

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Shaelyn McCabe Shaelyn McCabe

Why Change Feels So Hard (Even When You Want It)

Growth isn’t always neat, but it’s always worth it. The path to transformation can feel uncertain, but with patience and support, new possibilities emerge. In therapy, we navigate the messy middle together—where discomfort leads to deeper understanding and lasting change.

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